The Myth of Bloom Where You are Planted

Bloom where you are planted – it’s a powerful statement that feels so inspiring…. But is it?

In this episode, I am diving into the cliché and how my view about it has changed, especially with my relationships and my healing. I share stories about some personal endings and the healing that occurred in the space after. I also share some things you can do to help you create better relationships, make changes, heal, and reclaim your voice without needing to stay stuck in unsupportive environments where you can’t bloom because the soil sucks.

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“There’s a lot of privilege in the idea of bloom where you’re planted, but as I sat with this, thinking about change, thinking about women and the things that we wanna shift in our lives, I don’t find that inspiring anymore.”


This episode explores:

❤️‍🔥 The myth of “bloom where you are planted”
❤️‍🔥 Lessons I learned from ending things and creating space to heal
❤️‍🔥 How the brain affects the way we create habits
❤️‍🔥 The importance of being a community

“We have to get ready to endure some discomfort. We need to have a dedication to ourselves and a belief in the greater why of why we’re making these changes in the first place.”


Here are some of the highlights of Episode 19:

❤️‍🔥 (00:30) The story that inspired me to share this episode.
❤️‍🔥 (05:17) How ending things and creating space for healing helped me.
❤️‍🔥 (07:36) How the brain affects the way we create habits or set resolutions.
❤️‍🔥 (09:43) How does space help me create a new and better reality?
❤️‍🔥 (11:19) How can you make big changes with your spouse?
❤️‍🔥 (13:59) How can a community help you heal and reclaim your voice?


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